Foreign Marriage is Sought by Many Russian Sexy Ladies!

There is nothing wrong with these Russian women. They are not doing anything different from women that place ads in your local personals. There is a lack of men in their country, why can't they look elsewhere? We all have the right to seek happiness in a Russian bride marriage.

As said by a reporter from Irish TV after I answered their questions about why Russian brides are suddenly so popular in Ireland,

"From what you said I see a legitimate matchmaking service and not just some slick mail order brides operation".

And this is exactly what Russian dating agencies offer - introductions to real, existing, marriage minded Russian women. They do not sell women. They offer a way for people from different countries to find each other and be happy in a Russian bride marriage.

But those people are free, and bear full responsibility for their own actions. One would not complain on a national television about problems with his "girl-next-door" fiance, but if she is from Russia, it is the "Russian mail order brides" problem.

It is just a problem of a particular guy, with a particular woman!

There are bad people among all nations. In your country, too, there are probably some men and some women who get ripped off through their marriages. Unfortunately, there is nothing we can do about it. Just try to avoid the bad ones to the best of our abilities. No relationship is guaranteed problem-free. It is impossible!

There are hundreds or even thousands of happy Russian bride marriage, and there are only a few unhappy ones. One can get into trouble in a marriage with her countryman or his countrywoman. You know yourself it happens all the time. It probably happened with somebody of your family or friends.

Yes, there are gold diggers and social climbers. Which nation does not have them? It is not the reason to discriminate against Russian, or Ukrainian, or Uzbek women.

I do not say a Russian bride marriage will guarantee you will live in paradise on Earth. Not all marriages are the same! But it does not mean it has to end in trouble either.

Most things in life are potential trouble-makers. But, for example, no one cancels adoptions because there were a few adoptive parents that abused their adopted children, and a few adopted kids that later caused great problems for their adoptive parents. People understand that they were rather untypical cases.

More people die in road accidents than of cancer. No one is thinking about prohibiting cars. What is done concerns road safety.

There are sexually transmitted deceases, including AIDS, but no one is thinking about prohibiting sex. Just take precautions when you do it!

There was a case where an American husband killed his Russian wife in their Russian bride marriage. Now what? All Americans marrying foreigners are paranoid murderers? Was not there ever a case where an American husband killed an American wife? Were marriages in general announced dangerous after that?

Don't throw away the kid with the dirty water, and don't judge a phenomena by some untypical, extreme cases. I went through the process of a Russian bride marriage with a foreigner myself, and I was not exploited, or trafficked, or abused, and neither was my husband.

It was a story of two people from different countries meeting each other and falling in love.

I am proud to do what I am doing. I am not in the "mail order brides" business. I am in a dating business. I am helping people to find their love. I hope with my input there will be a few more happy couples in the world, and a few less lonely people.

Because good people deserve to be happy! A Russian bride marriage might just work out great for them!

Copyright 2004 Elena Petrova

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Elena Petrova is the creator of Russian Brides Cyber Guide an informational source about Russia and Russian women. She holds master's degree in philosophy and authored several highly successful books about Internet dating.

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