Second Type of Internet Scam!
There is a second type of Internet scam - "on the scene".
When everything about the girl, including her beauty and address is real, but her intentions are far from true and sincere, she could be out to scam unsuspecting guys.
Typical for this Internet scam is for the man who goes all the way to meet the Russian girl. He gives numerous gifts to her at her request but he is still left with a feeling that she is not even going to get into a serious relationship with him.
Or he invites her for a holiday where he discovers that she just came for fun and a holiday and nothing more than that, with no serious intentions for marriage - unless you both understand and agree about this arrangement beforehand.
It is easy to recognize early signs of an Internet scam in both scenarios, that is the Russian girl usually asks you for something. Let's say she asks you to help her for internet costs, apartment rental, medical problems or family problems or even asks for gifts. Our answer is always the same - Do NOT send her money!
Obviously if you want a girl to come to you, you will have to buy her the air plane ticket. Russian girls simply cannot afford such high expenses. Just be careful. NEVER send her the money for the ticket! Instead, send her the ticket or she can pick it up at the air terminal because you already paid for it.
Don't take this information completely out of text either. All women love gifts and attention, and it doesn't mean they are all scammers. Remember, only 0.1% of applicants might be a scammer. The other Russian women are fine.
You can send her flowers, a gift or a romantic card on her birthday or a holiday. These are all OK. It's a natural part of courting a Russian woman and it shows your romantic attitude towards your relationship. Russian girls love romantic attention! Their hearts melt from such attention from you.
Accepting your gifts by a Russian woman is OK, if you were the one who offered it first. A Russian woman with true intentions for serious relationships and marriage will never give you a hint that she in need of something or wants something from you.
Accepting your flowers or gift delivery on her birthday is normal in Russian dating. But asking you to buy her a computer or other things is not OK. If this happens, our advice is, report the Russian woman and leave her immediately.
Life in Russia might be hard and salaries are low, but Russian women are not poverty stricken. They always have what is the necessary at minimum to enjoy life. It's not central Africa where people are hungry indeed. Russia is quite civilized compare to that.
Bottom line is: when a Russian woman seeks love and marriage, she is looking for who you truly are as a person with dreams, interests and certain features of character. In this case she is not supposed to look for what things you have, like the name of your car or size of your house.
She will not look for what you can do for her, like help financially with a sick relative etc. Looking for the last two things is abusing the notion of dating, love, honesty and sincere relations.
I am a young Russian woman, who wrote this article. I have worked for 7 years in the marriage industry, have read thousands of letters, investigated complaints about scams and questioned both men and women clients. So, I know most of the tricks scammers play and what can be done to avoid them.
I also often spot their applications at the time of submission and delete it without consideration. We do not tolerate Internet scam and fight it as best we can. Its an ongoing battle, as scammers continually try to find new way to penetrate our defences. As a result we have to continually revise our methods for detecting an Internet scam.
If you are dating or corresponding with a Russian girl and suspect she might be a scammer, its better to send us a request to investigate the matter before you become a victim of it. I will personally read your request, if necessary - all your correspondence, and evaluate the possibility of an Internet scam. I will make sure the Russian girl is questioned and her data is compared to the list on already known scammers.
We will not leave you wondering. So please come and ask us for help, at the slightest hint of a problem.
If you unfortunately become a victim of an Internet scam or someone really tried to scam you, report it to us in any case. We have to memorize data of this person to make sure if she never applies again and that she never gets approved for our site or our partner sites.
We are here to help you to find your soul mate, start a sincere relationship, get married to a Russian woman that is special to you and live with her happily ever after.
It's not a fairy tale.
Thousands of couples have done it through marriage agencies and are very happy being together today, and so can you. Trust you heart in searching for her and you will find your love.
Anna Lang.
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