How Do I Know If My Russian Woman Contact Is Sincere?

MR. J.

Hello,

I found a Russian woman with whom I am interested. I have a question about when I contact Russian ladies. I realize you can't answer every question, especially since I am not a member of your site yet, but I can tell you that if it doesn't work out with this one lady I will become a member because I have become very interested in Russian ladies.

I have corresponded with a lady for about 5-6 emails now. In my last email, I asked her to send me her address or phone number, or to do a video conference with me so that I would know that I wasn't being tricked by someone. In her reply, she did not acknowledge the fact that I had written about those questions.

She has not asked for money, so I am not convinced she is a scammer for sure, but she hasn't sent me a way to get in touch with her. Is she shy? Does she want me to send my phone number. If this was an American lady I would know what this means, but the cultures are different and I am not sure if she is sincere or not. Can you please take the time to help me?

DENNIS:

Dear Mr. J.

Your problem is not unique. You have every right to be concerned and cautious. Many sites are worked by scammers because the management does not screen the ladies.

The most obvious advice to you is – do not fall in love with a photo!

When I was in your shoes and my woman contact did not answer my questions, I dropped her. There are millions of available honest Russian woman! Even though your male hormones are activated for "her" you do not even know if she is even a "her" or a scam group using a woman whether she knows it or not or maybe just using her photo.

If she is sincere maybe she will answer your questions. Two questions that I would ask her also is how many other men does she write to and how long she has been on the net looking. Good women do not last long. They are scooped up fairly quickly.

I have several web sites. There is much free information on all my sites. I suggest that you sign up for my newsletter and at this point spend $20 for my eBook. I have 3 free ones and the paid one, so you can get 4. You will get enough info to how to get the right woman into your home within a year after having dozens of sincere Russian woman who will almost beg you to marry them.

I teach you from my experiences, both failures and successes. When you buy the $20 eBook, you will get the free eBook “Don’t Get Scammed” on how to double check if any woman that you are interested in is sincere or not. When you narrow the playing field, you can always order a background check on her.

There is much information on my web site here.

MR. J.

Dennis,

Thanks so much for your response!

I finally emailed her and let her know if she didn't provide any way for me to verify I wasn't falling in love with some criminal running a scam out of his basement, I would not take her seriously.

I did so gently and built up to that point over a couple of emails, so I don't think my directness would have frightened her away. The next day that followed was the first day that "she" didn't email back.

Your advice helped confirm what I already thought. 

I will be checking out your e-book and website.

Sincerely,

J.

DENNIS:

Mr. J.

Do not be so quick to dump her. There is something about her that intrigued you in the first place. She might be a good woman. Nadia, my beautiful Russian wife, reminded me, when I shared your concerns about this woman with her, that these gals do not have access to the Internet as we do in western cultures. Many times it takes a few days for her to get around to go to the "internet club" where she pays a nominal fee for the minutes there. So it is not so convenient for her. She has a life to live as you do, even though she is interested enough, to find a guy, to post a profile on the World Wide Web.

Also, as you mentioned and Nadia confirmed, some understanding of the language is lost in the translation.

So be patient, and at the same time, vigilant. No need to stop communication with her unless it just happens. But do not stall out on only her.

I would suggest that meanwhile you continue your search - with vigor! She is a contact - GOOD! You did good! But do not stop with her.

My advice is to get dozens of Russian women so interested in you that you will have the very terrible task of rejecting most of them for a few whom you choose to go and visit!

It is so EASY to do this Russian woman Internet dating thing WRONG! But it can be simple if you let me lead you via my web sites and my ebooks.

Heck, you will spend $20 with me to get 4 eBooks to get it right. You will spend thousands of dollars whether you do it right or wrong. The difference is whether you have a great little Russian gal every night to crawl into bed with or not!