Are Mail Order Brides a Myth or Reality?

Why do Russian women seek men for marriage abroad?

Do those Russian brides really exist or are all those ads scams?

Are Russian women submissive and sacrificing?

I met Elena Petrova and her husband, John, several years ago while on my quest searching for Russian mail order brides

The information that she provided to me was extremely helpful. When I wrote to them, Elena was able to give me tremendous insight of the Russian womans perspective on many important things.

John took the time to answer me some of the more guy kind of questions.

I was impressed and you should be too when you read so much of their free information on their web site and her ebook. Of course Elenas Models are world renown!

This is a quote from one of her writings:

"FEATURED ARTICLE: Russian mail order brides do NOT exist!

Have you heard some bad stories about Russian women marrying western men and leaving them shortly after the marriage? Wondering why some crazy guys still go for Russian brides? Here are the answers..." Russian Brides

Elena goes into detail to explain that there is no such thing as a mail order bride. I must admit, even though, these sweet looking Russian mail order brides do not have a clue to what that even means, I always liked the term. I liked the idea of shopping in all the on line girly catalogs!

To me it was a great way to spend my lonely evenings. Maybe you enjoy this pass-time also?

As you can see from these photos here and on several of the dating sites that specialize in Russian mail order brides profiles that I list on this page that these gorgeous women are not the average uneducated peasant women that many people think of when they think of Russian women. These people, with that misconception, probably watched too many WWII news clips of that era.

These Russian mail order brides not only shave their legs and under their arms and - uh - elsewhere - after all they do like to wear bikinis like any other young woman who has a great body to show it off!

Most of Russian mail order brides have more higher education then we do! Most of them are professionals. All of them are hard working and proud of their self sufficiency, even though they would rather not be self-sufficient.

These Russian mail order brides want to depend on a man, their man. These lovely Russian ladies find comfort in depending on a man which is quite the opposite from the way that western women think! Western women want independence. These Russian girls want to be depend on you, a husband which makes them happy! Imagine that for a change in western culture.

These Russian mail order brides do not compete with men as western women like to do, which drives husband and the western wife apart into divorce. You cant have two heads of the family. Even the IRS says you can only claim one in the house hold as the head of the household, not both the husband and wife!

These sexy Russian mail order brides know their place in the male/female relationship. As much as that thought makes western women cringe, it is none the less true. And lucky for us western men! We get a great Russian mail order brides for a wife simply by finding her living in one of the former Soviet countries. There are millions to choose from!

Many of these Russian mail order brides will not have been married. You will find profiles of extremely good looking Russian women who have never been married before.

At first I thought that this was very strange. In America that only happens for obvious reasons, usually because they are undesirable in looks or character or something, you know what I mean?

So I thought that these older single Russian mail order brides, in their 30s and 40s, must be defective in some way, like bad breath or maybe missing some body parts!

Anyway . . . So I found out later that these Russian mail order brides arent too crazy about being a girl friend to a married guy. See all the good guys are taken in their early 20s. If they are truly good guys then the Russian wife stays married to him. There simply are not enough good guys, as these Russian mail order brides refer to men in general, to go around. This is true especially for women in the 30 to 50 year range.

There is little alimony or government sanctioned child support over there. Where there is it is not enforced. So the married Russian women, for the most part want to stay married, even if the marriage is not so great. But as such the divorce rate is still 60% in the major cities like Moscow and St Petersburg. The small towns have much less divorce rates.

The big cities have much corruption and are more westernized. That is a very important fact that you need to keep in mind when you are searching for your sexy Russian mail order bride.

You will have much better luck finding a quality and faithful Russian mail order bride in the smaller towns. Stay away from Moscow and St. Pete, even though there are many women with profiles who live there.

Also stay away from the far out rural areas. Communication is more difficult and traveling there is more complicated for you.

So here in American, and also probably in other western areas of the globe, if you are 40 years old, you will be lucky to get a western women 5 years younger than yourself.

This was such an exciting fact to me that I could get a woman much younger than myself!

Personally I was looking for a sweet, Russian mail order bride, about 15 years younger than myself. I was 56 when I decided to look for someone who wanted to be my wife.

I was not looking forward to the dating scene here in America, on line or off line. I did all my dating in my 20s & 30s. After being married and raising a family for 25 years, the thought of me competing out in the dating arena ran shivers up my spine - ugh! I didnt want to date a grandma, my age! I didnt want her grand kids either! I simply wanted a wife to be my buddy and love me and focus on me.

If other western guys, whom I read about and whom I met, could find a nice, slim, young, beautiful, blond, Russian mail order bride, then why couldnt I also find myself a wife like that?

So after a one year subscription (it was so cheap) with one popular US Internet dating site, and a few others like it, I was very discouraged looking for a western female soul mate.

About the time that I started looking at foreign womens profiles on this one dating site, they had stopped the Russian mail order brides profiles. When I asked them why, they said that there were too many scammers ripping off unsuspecting guys like us.

That was a few years ago. They have since allowed some Russian women ads on there, so maybe they do a screening process now. I am not sure since obviously I am not actively looking anymore.

As always, you must be cautious when dating on the internet. Not that all these Russian mail order brides are scam artists, but there are dishonest men and women who have only one intention and that is to get your money.

Fortunately for you, there is much information that I will give to you for FREE about writing your FIRST letters to Russian mail order brides.

Also I have only recommended the best International dating sites to you that eliminate the possibility of you being ripped off.

Stay within these guidelines and you are almost 100% safe. But stray away from our good advice, and well - you are on your own!