Second Email Letter Writing Secrets!
Your second email letter will be bigger but not by much. She will have asked you a couple of questions. Answer them, but be brief, at least here in this letter to her.
If she is interested in what you say, she will want to know more about you. Then you can open up more and get more specific with each letter, after your second email letter.
But I give you this advice, guy, to save you time and emotional aggravation. Dont pour your heart out yet. She is still a stranger to you and you to her.
Yeah - you are excited now because you have a dozen or so gorgeous potential furure Russian wives who are actually interested in you already after only your second email. This is an exciting adventure!
You will find that the more that you say in the beginning, in your first and second email letter, the more of your time and your energy will be wasted. This can be discouraging, especially since you cant marry them all! (If you find out how, let me - Dennis that is, know - not Nadia! - Just joking, my sweet Russian wife!)
Understand a little about your future Russian wife.
A Scammer will ask you for money, even after your second email letter or she might wait a few letters later. A legitimate Russian woman would never ask you for money, no matter how broke she is. It is a matter of pride. It is an embarrassment to her if you even offer to help her out financially.
Wait until after you are comfortable enough to offer her money. She will resist, if she is genuine. Once you both are writing only to each other, especially you, then offer to send her some money to help pay for her expenses at the internet club, telephone, and her apartment rent.
Do not send her thousands of dollars. Only 50 bucks will test the waters of her sincerity. It will make you feel great too because you can help your future Russian wife! To her she has decided that you are a good guy because you care about her.
Later, after she has become your fiance, you can support her or at least supplement her income. Funny thing about us western guys, we get some of those male hormones flowing when we give our gal some spending money, if you know what I mean!
Caring about her means so much to her. Let me tell you a little story about what my friend told me. He traveled 7,600 miles to meet his future Russian wife. One day when he held her hand, she started to cry. Why, he wondered? She said that no man in her whole life showed her true and innocent affection.
Your future Russian wife is starving for love. You are probably also. Soon you will be able to feast on each other, and you can take that any way that you want to take it!
I see it in, Nadia, own my Russian wife. Even after almost 2 years of marriage, when I do the smallest thing, like bring her a $3 bunch of flowers from a grocery store, she is overwhelmed with joy! Or when I help her with dishes, she is so grateful. Why? Because these Russian girls are not used to men simply giving them something for nothing.
Your future Russian wife is used to men always wanting from her, and always it is for sexual or financial favors, not for real affectionate love. A man in her country wants to marry her so the she can financially support him! That is her environment - if she can even get a "good" guy.
Now she is a 30 year old Russian female and considered as an old maid in her culture! This is quite different from western culture.
Many letters after my second email letter, while she was still in Russia, when I offered my future Russian wife money, she refused money for months. Once she felt comfortable that I was really her good guy man, then she accepted. It made me feel so good, just because she let me give her money!
On the other hand, I had several women, in the beginning of my internet dating adventures, asking me for money right after my second email letter. Some I stopped dating. Some I sent some money, not much, but I was a sap! I learned.
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I want to encourage you. If you are seeking your future Russian wife, you are not alone. If you are seeking your future Russian wife, you can have one! That is the good news.
Guy, dont deny your natural male drives, your male hormones, your testosterone! Go for it! What you did not find, or cannot find, in the local girls, you will find in your future Russian wife. They are different! And remember, she is different in a much BETTER way!
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