Your Second Letter!
Your Second Letter . . .
. . . needs to be written correctly to your long distance Internet Russian Girl Friend, or to any of these sweet looking Russian women.
It should be the same letter to all of them, except for her name, obviously, and a few answers to the questions that she asked you.
Since you will be sending so many letters out, you need to keep track of who sends a letter back to you.
This second letter will be simply a continuation of your First Letter. Let her know that you appreciated that she wrote back to you.
Man - this is a good sign when she wrotes back to you!
Never use the reply option in your email to answer your newly found Russian lady friends letter when you send your second letter.
I suggest that you create a folder in your email system and name it My Russian Lady Friends or something like that. Make a file for each woman whom you send your first letter to.
Make sure that you use their full name for each file name. You will find out that you will be writing to more than one Natasha, or Svetlana, or Elena, or Marina, etc. You do not want to get the women mixed up!
Be careful to never send the wrong letter to the right girl. Ouch!
These ladies simply do not understand that you have millions of Russian women to choose from. You are not obligated to any one woman until you both agree to that. Up to that point you are still shopping on-line for your fantasy gal!
This lady does not want to be fooled around with. She is not interested in you as a pen-pal. She wants a real live breathing man whom she can give all of her love and attention to.
If you come across as someone whos not sincere but only playing or experimenting with her, she will drop you and she will never answer another of your letters.
Be genuine. Be who you are. Let the woman be attracted to you, not someone who you want to pretend to be. You hope that she will do the same for you.
When you meet her face to face she will know immediately if you are who you say who you are through your letters and your phone calls.
You should, ideally, know her before you meet her. I suggest you follow my advice to save yourself much anguish. Ive Been there - Done that!
Now in this second letter you are responding to her first letter to you. She may or may not send another photo. Keep politely asking her for more photos.
She might seem embarrassed to just send photos out to a stranger. In the third letter and beyond ask again especially if she is hesitant.
In your second letter send a similar photo as your 1st photo, a different angle or closer or further back.
You, like all of us guys, want to see a picture of her body, but she wants to see your eyes.
So look at your future Russian Bride through the lens of the camera. Send her only two more pictures at this time.
Keep her intrigued but still curious. You do not want to deal all your cards in the beginning.
Keep a copy of all letters that you sent to each woman so you will know what you sent, including the first one.
Each woman who responds to you, you will respond back immediately. Under each womans folder you will want to have 2 sub folders called Sent and Received.
You will want to have letters 1 through 5 already written and have the appropriate photos of yourself, family, house, friends, work, etc.
Put them in a folder and put many copies of each in the files. Each file is named First Letter, Second Letter, etc. As you keep track of what you have sent out, you will know what next letter to send each woman.
Have at least 100 copies of your pre-written First Letter, 50 copies of your Second Letter, and 25 of your Third Letter ready to send out.
You will seldom use letters beyond #5 or #6 for most women. You will part your ways before that, due to various reasons. Some women you will be glad to stop writing to.
Others will suddenly just go away. It is part of the whole nature of this long distance dating.
Keep all these letters, even the ones from ladies you quit writing to. One of them may suddenly show up again.
Maybe she had a legitimate challenge in her life that she had to attend to.
Maybe she chose someone else to write to and now that on-line dating fell through. Now she contacts you again.
Many times you will see the same ladys profile again. It could even be on another dating web site.
You remember the face but you can not remember if you wrote to her or not.
But if you keep good records, like I am telling you to do, you will save yourself embarrassment and much time and money!
Your Second Letter will be bigger than your First Letter, but not by much.
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