When You Write Russian Girls!

Your First Letter is Very Important!

Say that you have a excellent health, go in for sport, are very active, don't smoke or drink (it can be your greatest advantage, by the way, taking into account the high rate of alcoholism in Russia). If you don't like sport, at least don't mention you can stay in bed the whole day long!

I know that a lot of westerners like to travel so mention it, when you write Russian girls! It's not necessary to tell about it in detail in the first letter, but in the next several letters, describe your travels, what places and countries you've visited and where you'd like to go with your future Russian wife.

It's not very often at all when a Russian girl, especially from a small town, can go somewhere abroad, and stories about travels can sound like a fairy-tale for her. I know it myself, that I felt so sorry I haven't seen the world at all, as if I was living in prison.

I know that Russian girls are very afraid of being only a toy, a housemaid or a slave after marrying a foreigner. I know it myself, and when a man mentions he's looking for a partner, an equal - he's a winner, when you write Russian girls!

I can see his respect for me, in spite of all this terrible situation, when I have to advertise myself at the "Russian bride market".

This word - "respect" is so often forgotten by you! I've read so many statements in the message boards about Russian women, full of contempt and superiority.

It's not pleasant at all, and when this attitude, though hidden, reveals itself in the letter from a westerner I receive - believe me, I won't continue the correspondence.

The next fear of mine is to be cheated by a foreigner. We here have heard so many stories when girls were invited abroad to work or as a fiance and were made to work as prostitutes or maids without payment and the possibility to come back home.

That is why don't invite a girl to you in your first letter, when you write Russian girls! It won't show your serious attitude to the girl, quite the reverse!

She may be scared away. Besides, it's not so easy for me to go abroad - I have to get international passport (it takes 4-8 weeks), then I must arrange all the documents, apply for a visa and it's very often when young single girls are refused from visas at the embassies.

That's why I'm sure that it's the foreigner who must come to me, I won't go to a person I don't know well.

By the way, if a girl asks if she can go to you in her first letter - it's very probable that she's a scammer or just wants to travel without paying for it herself.

Mention your family values, your good relations with your family, love for children - any qualities which can prove you'll be a good husband and excellent father, when you write Russian girls.

Many of women are divorced, very often they have children, and looking for a foreigner is sometimes the last hope for them to arrange their life, to have a family at last, to find a husband she didn't manage to find in her country.

Any romantic things you'll mention, when you write Russian girls, will be surprising for them. Our men don't like to show their feelings. They very often are inattentive.

When you write Russian girls, even mentioning the wish to have a candle-lit dinner together can win a heart of a Russian woman

The next thing is about your language. Please, when you write Russian girls, try to write your letters as clear as possible, without very long sentences and slang words. It will help you to avoid misunderstanding.

Please, check spelling of your letter! Some women are using computer programs to translate their Russian language. Besides, it's not good to show your ignorance. It's very often stressed at Russian dating sites that Russian women are very educated and cultured - it's true.

I don't boast, I just would like to make you understand that I can clearly see the mistakes in the letters I receive, and the pronoun "I" or the name of your city written with small letters will not help you to make a good impression on me.

I can understand when the mistakes are in the letter of somebody from a European country, but when an American's writing "new york" - I'm shocked. Etiquette is also important - please, don't write letters with all capital letters!

Again I'd like to repeat, when you write Russian girls, don't lie! You're looking for your perfect mate, and it doesn't matter if you don't have the qualities I mentioned - I'm sure you'll be able to find your woman!

The best advice I read somewhere in the letter writing tips is BE THE OPTIMIST. What's the point to see a scammer or a gold-digger in every woman you're writing to? Maybe you just shouldn't have started all this? I know there are such girls, but they certainly don't constitute the majority of Russian girls and it's only human foolishness which allows these dishonest Russian opportunists (male or female) to prosper.

I'll tell you now some things which can be useful for avoiding scammers, but it's not the main purpose of my writing - quite the reverse! I'd like to persuade you that the most Russian girls have all the qualities you heard about, and only patience and great wish to be happy will help you to find your perfect match.

*** Note: The information contained here on this page and on the page before this page was not written by this webmaster but by an unknown Russian girl.

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